But what about all of that autism awareness? Yes, it is amazing but it does not show the true struggles of those with severe autism nor the struggles their caregivers go through. Sadly for most residential care seems to be their only option or they are pushed into it.

You may wonder why? Well, part of it is with severe autism comes many challenges. They tend to be mostly nonverbal or limited verbal skills. Due to a lack of communication and understanding, we often see more behaviors that are so much more severe. Before Ryley could talk, she ran a lot and was very violent to herself and me. I was scared to take her places because I did not know what was going to happen.

For a large number of people with Autism, this becomes so true. People became scared to talk about it. How do you explain to the world your child does not talk, he is not potty trained, he is self-injurious, he hits us and has horrific meltdowns. You can't get people to understand.

Whether you find a way that is best for your family or not we are here to help you. Lakikid has a Facebook support group of many parents seeking options for their child's future or need your child to be placed in a 24 hour supervised setting.